Appreciate your ex

Instead of badmouthing them to anyone who will listen appreciate them.  Whether their intentions were good or bad your ex devoted time for you.  Thank them for that time,  for watching the movie with you,  staying on the phone,  driving,  eating with you.   Thank them for the compliments they gave you.  Your morale is…

Sex and it’s false association to love. 

Sex is pleasurable. A neurological association with pleasure is formed that persuades us to focus on its affect to us. Unmatched in any other way it becomes a profound underlying cause for many of our actions.  This in turn alters behavior and creates habits unbeknownst to many people and determines our lifestyle.  Understanding that the…

Love and it’s consuming energy

Maybe the first word that comes to mind is passion. I’m not describing something frivolous or temporary. This consumption of a person is without regard, direction and control. To remember a time when love was not a focus or entirely necessary isn’t always possible. Contrary to remembering a time when my thoughts which manifested in…

The Power of Being Single

I’ve got 15 minutes to create a readable version of my thoughts on marriage and demeaning relationships before I begin what may be another predictable commute and mind dulling day of spreadsheet creation. Here goes… I have always realized but only recently acknowledged the fact that as all things being in a relationship cannot be…